I wish they'd make up their minds, because you can't have God predestining people to fail and hold them responsible for their failure.
There is some both/and-ness in the whole area of predestination/Armenianism.
However, I think many of the Calvinists hereon take things to an extreme virtually out of the box.
There are mysteries vis a vis GOD’s Omicience etc. but I’m confident we can take His Word at face value.
and,
While His perspective on fairness is not ours; His ways are higher than ours . . .
He is NOT LESS fair than we are.
AS Vicktor Frankel said . . .
THERE IS NO FREEDOM WITHOUT RESPONSIBILITY
and
also, it’s clear—imho—THERE IS NO RESPONSIBILITY WITHOUT FREEDOM—AUTHENTIC FREEDOM TO CHOOSE AND FACE THE AUTHENTIC CONSEQUENCES OF THE CHOICES.