There is no indication what happened after Christ was born in Matthew 1:25 because "eos" can just as easily mean "evel till". Compare Mt. 27:8, "the field was called Haceldama, that is, The field of blood, [eos] this day.".
"Firstborn" is legal status that has nothing to do with subsequent children or their gender.
It's not the same. The rule is when it is found with ou or outou it means until the time when. See again Thayer's Lexicon http://www.blueletterbible.org/cgi-bin/words.pl?book=Mat&chapter=27&verse=8&strongs=2193&page=1&flag_full=1
This rule for use of EWS does not apply in Matthew 27:8