[HarleyD]

Dr. E - If election is based on "our own free will actions" then we are "obligating God to elect us."

annalex-I choose, however, to match my rewards and punishments to what the child actually does, because I love my child.

So, let's put what you've just said into God's words:

[God] choose to match [His] rewards and punishments to what the child actually does

And you don't believe this is Pelagius' error?

[annalex]

[God] choose to match [His] rewards and punishments to what the child actually does

And you don't believe this is Pelagius' error?

Of course not. Nothing here denies sovereignty of God, denies original sin, and it follows the scriptural model to view God as Our Father.