I personally experienced this as one event, though I am still "growing up into Him Who Is My Head," but obviously we are all uniquely made, and God our Creator, who knew us before forming us in the womb, knows just what each one of us requires to come to and walk by faith, and that is His desire, "that we know Him, and Jesus Christ Whom He has sent, for this is Eternal Life." Gifts can be given, but until they are received they are of no consequence. God, the Father of Lights, is "the giver of every good and perfect gift," as well as the One who "gives sight to the blind," and "opens ears."
Love to you both in Christ Our King.
Father, Son and the Holy Spirit are eternally connected. There is no time when the Word, in Flesh or not, receives the Spirit.
Christ's baptism, by the way, is another issue. He Who was without sin had nothing to repent for. That whole section treats Christ as man and not God and Man in one Person.
I was filled with the Spirit in the beginning when I first heard my Master's call - and then I quenched Him for a number of years - repented, surrendered and was filled again.
Self-will is a snare. If we want to do it "our way" - He'll let us, and we'll fail.
Was blessed for more than a year at a home church that had Derek Prince come and hold a series of classes before my joining.
Kind of got excessive at some point about seeing a demon under every chair and incident but he still had a lot on the ball in terms of his discernment and teachings.