[Alex Murphy]

I also wish those with more significant first hand experience being part of church splits and crashes would be more candid about their experiences.

I've been through three myself (two splits and a crash, all involving the same congregation/pastor). What would you like to know?

[Quix]

I have found in my own personal experiences of many types in life . . . that it's often edifying

to note, discuss, explore

what the individuals learned about the other side

and

what the individuals learned about themselves.