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"It's a relief to read that despite our culture, there are people in my generation (I'm 20) who still believe in virginity... "

I am relieved right along with you. And as we both know the truth of the matter there is no way to determine good and true sex unless one has been a virgin beyond high school. Can't know something well unless one knows it's opposite. And abstinence for the kingdom is that opposite. And the King of that Kingdom rocks, for he gave his life complete for all us sinners. We can wait for the true good and beautiful.

I was a virgin until I got married at age 26 and had I not found the most wonderful girl in the world, I would have waited until I was in my 40s or beyond! Cause God is good and became man for our sake. Just for our sake. Only to love us and be closer to us. Pure truth incarnated and brutally suffered for love of us. That is love! That is gift! That is true total offering ... as sex is designed to be by the creator, by the redeemer, by Love Himself. And sex which gives all to the other is Love Supreme, like John Coltrane's saxophone sings. And giving never felt so good when it is gift to other via Love Supreme.

God bless all the virgins and their search for truth, acceptance and love. May Love support them forever and a day.