The earliest example of a Pope exercising authority across the head of the local bishop is Pope Clement I reaching to Corinth to demand reinstallment of certain bishops over the head of no less a figure than apostle John! (Letter to the Corinthians).
It appears hardly to be a "demand" leter. Rather a pastoral letter from one Church to another.
His words are the recorded words, but I agree, the scripture points to a debate that is not recorded.
a pastoral letter from one Church to another
Cortinth is not in Roman bishopric. The letter is a demand, not an advice. Have you read it? The papal supremacy is likened there to Aaron pulling the larger stick from among the 12 tribal priests.