Just for your information I am opposed to the ordination of women, (but am not opposed to a discussion about it - it just is not my interest ) and I do think the homosexuality of the clergy has been destructive to the Church in many ways. Let me offer an example of Catholics behaving like obedient little children and not taking responsibility.
Catholics in parishes for over 25 years have been aware that more and more of their new priests were gay, there was an obvious problem developing, but they said nothing. Most guilty, it seems to me were the Knights of Columbus, and the women who thought the gay priests were "just wonderful". The knights hobnobed with the bishops with their swords but never really sat down with him to discuss what was going on. We all know the results, and now because most straight men were turned off by what was going on in the seminaries, we now have very few Americans being ordained and our priests speak Polish or whatever - and is the answer lets seriously face this issue and try to solve it as adults - no most likely we are asked to "pray" and I am sure some will think I am against prayer. Oh well - I still think adult discussion and action, not giving in to the crazies
who want to change everything is the answer. If you don't think there are problems ask your own relatives and friends about birth control and annulments. Being willing to discuss these issue does not mean one favors abortion or some other crazy idea.
And furthermore attacking the Episcopalians who admittedly are in a mess,does not excuse us from being honest with ourselves. The Church is a divine institution but it is a very human organization and we are the "grown up" humans who are responsible or should be. One liners or pointing to single issue extremes do not help solve our very real problems but honest give and take discussion could be a start.
Check out the numbers attending Mass on Sunday in comparison to years ago. Talk to your Protestant friends and discover that up to one third of their church membership are fallen away Catholics. and check the reductions of the number of Catholics in South America and Africa. Some would say - good - Let them all go to hell - but would those be the words of Jesus. I say again, though some may not like it - lets all "Grow up".