I understand your concern. We are struggling with the same issue here. Pray it through.
Here is my dilemma. Our parish remains steadfastly orthodox. I'm on the vestry, serving as treasurer and a lector. Our rector and Bishop have faithfully ministered to our family for years. My kids are 6 and 11 and our church family has always been here.
I see the larger picture and it causes me great pain, but for my family these issues are vague and far away. Do I remain faithful to my local family or break these relationships over "larger" concerns?
dung.