Alright then, I'm sorry...
No problem, in fact I can see how some of my complaining (re: how some church girls aren't interested in relationships at all, and others prefer jerks, etc), could make me *sound* like one of those guys over net communications (in the absence of any realworld interaction that would inform you differently.)
But it all worked out in the end, I'm happily married now. I just hope this dysfunctional church culture changes before my boys hit 16 and start wife-hunting...