[SouthernFreebird]

And what do you think I used for BC, and yet here I sit with 3 kids.Struggling to feed and clothe them as a single mother,I doubt God is going to hold my decision againsts me. There is just too much at stake to risk another pregnancy.

[steadfastconservative]

If you are not married, you should not have relations. Thus, no "birth control" of any kind would be necessary and certainly not sterilization.

I sympathize with you but your decision was wrong. BTW, you are not the only woman who has had problem pregnancies. Still, NFP is the only moral way for couples to deal with this situation.

[It's me]

Struggling to feed and clothe them as a single mother,I doubt God is going to hold my decision againsts me. There is just too much at stake to risk another pregnancy.

As a single mother, you shouldn't have to worry about getting pregnant, right?