Truthfully, I don't like groups of strangers either, and my preference would be to stay all by my lonesome either on the computer or doing one of my hobbies (or fellowshipping with my dogs!). However, I kind of think that's not particularly good for me, and it doesn't further my spiritual growth. On the other hand, perhaps there are a few people God intended to do His work alone. I can't say that's not the case.
I have recently joined a Women's Bible study group (I really am not great at communicating with other women!) and we all *share* and stuff, which I HATE, but honestly, it happened at the best possible moment for me (I believe God's hand) as both of my inlaws died within a few weeks and the outpouring of love and prayer from these virtual strangers was amazingly helpful to me.
susie
I agree that there are times when a group can be where God has put you. And that in a time of crisis or sorrow, they can be a comfort. For many, if not most people, to feel whole, they have to be part of a crowd.
To be honest, I wouldn't trust not one woman in my former circle with anything about me. They never were friends, just pleasant aquaintances that I had nothing in common with. (See, you guys here are imaginary friends). And they are all wonderful, good women. But again, I never ever felt safe around them.
I've also come to believe that hermits have their place too ;) I mean, you have John the Baptist who did OK (I just wish there were more female hermits of legend). For some, they can't hear God unless they are alone.