And I mean "conflict" in a deep theological sense. Kindness and respect for the right of others to disagree is essential. But the disagreement should lead to separate denominations where everyone can be true to his own conscience before God, not wars within one in an effort to look unified, or even ecumenical gatherings where important differences are pretended to not exist.
We should be friends and allies on moral and freedom issues. That's it. We need to know where to draw lines.