Like the way the catholics pick and chose what they want to believe from various sources?????
Irrelevant. "Cafeteria Catholics" do not figure into this point. They claim to be their own magisterium sometimes, but they do so in direct OPPOSITION to their tenuous membership in the Catholic Church. With you, it is apparently an article of faith that you ARE your own teaching authority, with the full approbation of whatever denomination to which you may belong. If you have none, the point is thereby only further emphasized.