Youre understanding is between you and then Holy Spirit.
If you have prayed about it and come to a resolution about it then no Christian can remove that from you. As long as you have asked God for guidance on this issue and the Holy Spirit and the Word do not contradict then certainly, you should feel "content" in your understanding. No matter what anyone else says.
Thank you wallcrawlr. That is what I have always believed to be true. If God can reveal himsself to pagans who have not even seen a "missionary", He can speak to and comfort any of His children in need.