[P-Marlowe]

That's the difference between a seeker friendly church and a dour friendly church.

Here's your dour-friendly/seeker unfriendly church:

[lupie]

So? That has nothing to do with what we are saying. I could put up a picture of a straw man here. A non-seeker sensitive church does not equal unloving or dour. Sigh...

You are trying to say that if A does NOT = B, then B = C or A = C and that is poor reasoning -- math and otherwise. :)