I've lived it - ALL of it.
Born a trusting LDS girl. Got used and abused by it's members.
Suicide seemed like a good option.
BEWARE.
Gee, I was born a trusting Baptist boy. Got used and abused by its members.
Atheism seemed a good althernative.
Then the Lord reached out and touched me and life has been real, wonderful and useful ever since.
Things we live is not always objective?
Our personal experience can shade or cast a shadow on other things and we don't even recognized it.
I too have things in my growning years if I allowed could magnify and be out of proportion to ones surroundings!
BTW Temple marriage is not required for Salvation, it is exaltation which is not the same!