Next time you see an icon with Mary and Jesus, look at Mary's hands... They point to Jesus. Everything about Mary points to Jesus.
As a woman, I would think that Mary would be a wonderful example for you to follow, considering she was Jesus' greatest and first disciple...
Scripture says she will be called blessed by all generations. God HIMSELF says that! I find this as permission to honor and venerate Mary as often as I can.
Regards
I think Mary was on to something. We should all be "pointing to Jesus," and no one else.