If you ONLY understand God's sovereignty without understanding at the same time man's free will to choose, you are living the Calvinism heresy of double predestination - that God actively chooses to create and send men to hell. Only with man's free will is God's justice left intact.
If God creates something that cannot do a command of His, then how can He judge the creation as a failure?
Of course God gives what He commands. But He does not overwhelm nature. The fact that man can ignore God's graces is clear from Scripture, and shows that man DOES have a choice to make.
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Forget Calvinism for the moment. Forget predestination, man's free will, and everything else. What precisely is man choosing and how does he make this choice?