I was just about to mention the Sodality when I read your post.
I was a member of our parish's Sodality from earliest girlhood right up through high school. We had a wonderful time and really felt as though we were doing something important.
I once asked if we could start one up at my parish today, even though I am the mother of two boys, and was told, "Why would we want to do THAT?? The girls serve on the altar now and don't need the Sodality anymore."
Perhaps your pastor will be more amenable to this suggestion than was mine.
Regards,
Unfortunately, I know only of a couple of churches in the Washington Archdiocese that have Sodalities any more and none are located anywhere near where we live. Starting one would be a good thing...and I wonder if there would be the interest...
Fortunately, the High School we are going to send her to (God willing) has one.