Awfully nice of you :-).
My point was that the decision for a religious vocation, like the decision to have children abundantly, requires a decisive rejection of society's and the media's presentation of what matters in life.
Petrosius is right that the rejection of distinctive characters for men and women is part of the problem. The concept that the most important values are money and "freedom," defined as irresponsibility, is a distortion of the best qualities of both men and women.
Oh, I know that...I just know you are a great role model for a more appropriate approach. And I am pleased that some people are beginning to see what really matters!