If it seems as such to you, then you are ill-informed on matters of Catholic doctrine. Why, in any event as a non-Catholic, are you expressing concern on the subject of the Sacrament of Extreme Unction?
Because The LORD has put a fire in my heart to oppose false doctrine from any source. False doctrine is an enemy to the truth which I love. It allows the people of God to live outside of God's glorious truth thereby not living their lives to their fullest for The LORD. It also inhibits the lost from coming to a saving knowledge of Christ. The LORD seeks those who will worship Him in Spirit and Truth. Many people have not truly sought after the shear truth but rather have excepted the indoctrination of their various denominations as Christians and their various false religions as the lost. It is up to each one of us to boldly seek out the truth. The Bible says when you seek after The LORD with all of your heart then you will find Him.
I like to be liked as well as the next person. It would be much easier to not to speak the truth. I do not wish to not be friends with Catholic people but must for The LORD's sake, their sake and the sake of my own heart speak out against false doctrine.