You would have to ask those couples. I can only say that I believe that gaining mastery over the sexual appetite is incredibly important for any advance in Christian virtue, since the sexual appetite is a part of the love of sensual pleasures that is concupiscence and which is the form of original sin. NFP can be used in this way by a couple if they use this as their motivation.
NFP does not have to be a part of ascetical struggle to be licit, but it does to be virtuous.
Okay, that makes sense.