I'm not a handholding type. I don't like community prayer either. My mom loves charismatic mass. I like to go in a corner by myself and am anti-social coming to my spiritual life.
>> am anti-social coming to my spiritual life.<<
Me too!
Actually, I'm one of those "Old time religion" people. I'm so blessed to be in the parish I'm in. We sing Latin and Greek during Holy Mass and say the prayer to St. Michael the Archangel at the end.
It's like stepping into 1970. No guitars, no handholding, no fluff. We even say a rosary before.
(six masses, 4 priests and 750 families and growing. Life is good here!)