You know what's really funny, the man I'm discussing this with is from the Charlotte Diocese. When I posted what you did he stated that Bishop Jurgis made no clear statement there.
How about that for denial?
Maybe the good Bishop's evil twin brother "Skippy" posted this on the official Diocesan website for Charlotte, N.C. instead of His Eminence!
Sorry, Netmilsmom, I can think of no rationale response to that objection from your friend!
Frank