Okay, but then why DOES Paul say this?
38 Therefore both he that giveth his virgin in marriage doth well: and he that giveth her not doth better. -1 Corinthians 7
"But I speak this by permission, and not of commandment." (1 Cor 7:6)
"Now concerning virgins I have no commandment of the Lord: yet I give my judgment." (1 Cor 7:25)
"A bishop then must be blameless, the husband of one wife." (1 Tim 3:2)
"Let the deacons be the husbands of one wife, ruling their children and their own houses well." (1 Tim 3:12)