It may be the wrong technique for administering the sacrament, but the next conclusion is that transubstantiation hasn't even taken place, based on that.
I don't know which is more profane: mishandling the Eucharist or refusing to receive it because the EEM's "do it wrong".
It isn't profane at all to not go up to Communion. That is up to the individual.
There is no such thing as an EEM. The correct term is Extraordinary Minister of Holy Communion. The distinction is NOT trivial, but important.