[Lexinom]

If you're in a miserable marriage, you've tried EVERYTHING with this same contempt for psychology standing santimoniously on Calvin, your youth is running out, you don't see yourself ever enjoying the things every couple around you seems to take for granted, it's worth a try. Call it desperation.

Calvinists can be extremely rigid and "just so". I'm sorry. I would like to enjoy the things in marriage that others enjoy. I don't want to live in misery.

[housewife101]

Guess I would have to say to that-follow the Bible,not Calvin. Only the Bible can give direction to those needing it. God's perfect design for marriage is one man for one woman for a lifetime. I believe if God's principles are followed this will happen and happily so. Only the Bible and God, not Calvin, can help a marriage.