Obidience to what? Its one thing to be in a diocese with Bishops like Cardinal George in charge, who, despite various problems, try to be in line with Rome, its another thing to be in a diocese with Bishops like Cardinal Mahoney.
Obidience? Sorry, I think the burden of obidience is on the Bishops first.
Maybe pre-eminently, but not 'first.'
Up here, we have the experience of making the choices. Rembert/Rome? Rembert/Rome? Rembert/Rome?
Not hard to figure out what to do.