"A lot of info gets across, and guys listen to other guys in the presence of Budweiser"
LOL I have considered such an option at a small-group level with wine and cheese (brings in couples, rather than just the guys). I have to flesh it out some more, though. The practical stuff always gets in the way of the theory!
Your comment regarding one person at a time is very true. We try to do this whenever we can. Of course, in today's society, you take the risk of "hurting feelings" and coming across as being dogmatic or something like that, when you hold to the teachings of the Church that aren't popular. I have learned that you must develop thick skin and have logical arguments prepared in advance to put aside the "wisdom of the masses", which is basically listening to what the culture teaches.
"if you have an idea tell me."
That is what I was hoping for! But your Knights idea is not bad. I'll have to check into that.
"The Church has a duty to excommunicate, you are correct, but it also has a duty to save as many as possible"
True, and if you read 1 Cor 5, you'll see that excommunication's goal was to save souls by forcing one to repent of their actions. The Church must take its supernatural duty more seriously if it wants to continue to maintain its position in society. That is why the Church has lost so much relevance in society today. That is why the Church is often not taken seriously even by its own members. That is what happened with the sex scandal and the politician scandals that are allowed to continue. Bishops are not considering their supernatural duties of shepherding their flocks and are considering the Church as more a social welfare organization.
The liberal movement that hurt Vatican 2 and the dissent allowed within the US following Paul VI's ruling on contraceptions in the 1960's show this infection within the United States. Continue to pray for more Bishops who are taking their jobs seriously, realizing they have a higher power to answer to then public opinion polls. "To those who have been given much, more will be expected".
Regards
Would you be able to give me the Vatican II documents and citations which go to the fact that theology did not change with the Council.
I am looking to perhaps establish a dialogue with this person and to that end I would like to be more prepared than I am at this time. To that end, having Vatican II conciliar documents (with the citation) would be enormously useful so as to respond to her contention that theology changed with Vatican II.
I have the Catechism, Ordinatio Sacredotalis, Humanae Vitae, Donum Vitae, Evangelium Vitae, Theology of the Body to discuss the moral Truths, but Vatican II is the battleground.
Thanks.