In this case when a killer has a gun pointed at your head and you have a infant daughter at home with a dead father and you'd really like to see that she is not orphaned, which approach would you say would work best in that situation:
A) "God loves you and has a wonderful plan for your life." or
B) "You are totally depraved."
I suspect everyone of us would choose "A" in that situation.
"A" Is presumptive. I don't personally know that God has a wonderful plan for any individual person's life.
It was the goodness of Christ being exhibited in her that convicted that guy of being totally depraved and in need of a Savior.
He certainly didn't conclude that he was a "good person" as popular pyschology and postmodernist thought concludes.
If God loves everyone equally, unconditionally and has a wonderful plan for everyone, then why does God send most to hell?