Thanks, I guess I am trying to figure out if the RC church is an intermediary, or a helping hand.
Someone once wrote that the gospel can be summarized this way: Jesus gave His life FOR us, so that He might give His life TO us, in order that He might live His life THROUGH us. Bringing Christians to the place where they understand who they are in Christ, what they have by virtue of their spiritual union with Christ, and then that they might actually experience Christ living through them, is the whole point of our faith. Church "doctrine" and busywork has little to do with this. The organized church has only one purpose (well, two): bringing people into the Kingdom, and then helping believers to experience and enjoy the life of Christ lived out through them.
In the 30+ years I've been a Christian, my experience and observations are that there are not many formal churches that actually fulfill this role. They set themselves up as intermediaries (and, frankly, this is true of churches regardless of denomination, Protestant or Catholic). As I think I posted earlier, there is no perfect church, or church which fulfills its God-given purpose perfectly. But in the "church universal," you will find many people who understand who they are in Christ, who Christ is in them, and who are growing in their experience of seeing Christ active in their lives. (This is the source of joy, by the way.) I'd say that in asking what your are in this thread, you have an sense of what's really important.
God bless.