I need some time to think about your post.
In the meantime, I recommend Fr. John Corapi. You've probably seen him on EWTN. He is very solid as far as Novus Ordo priests go. I prefer the traditional approach to Catholicism but I like listening to Fr. Corapi. He is good, especially since he was a big time sinner in southern CA before his conversion. He tends to be someone to whom people can relate. A friend of mine is considering a conversion due to watching him on EWTN. http://www.fathercorapi.com/
Let me ping some others who may be of help.
Rodney, I'll just go ahead and ping my entire list. There are some very intelligent people on it.
Can anyone provide some advice or resources for Rodney's inquiries about Catholicism?
Yes, I like him. Thanks for the link to his website.
As to Catholicism, don't confuse the church hirlings with the faith itself. The traditional faith is the most beautiful, fulfilling and rich there is if you know where to look. Once you discover the Church that Christ founded, your life will never be the same.
Look into traditional Catholicism. You're a perfect candidate as you're looking for something deeper and more reverent. Here is a list of Latin Mass locations in your area if you're interested in attending one.
If I can be of any assistance whatsoever, please let me know.