This really isn't that complicated. :)
I guess if you think of God as a parent, and we as the children - God knows whether we'll be good or bad, and that we may not always heed his advice. He's happy with us when we do as He'd like, and upset and/or sad when we don't, but He never stops loving us...
Doesn't God also create the resulting action or our free-will choice? I don't understand His being upset with us doing as He designed us to.