until that post, I was in your corner...
"To speak evil of no man, to be no brawlers
but showing meekness unto all men.
For we ourselves were sometimes foolish
disobedient, deceived,serving diverse lusts
and pleasures, living in malice and envy
hateful and hating one another."
But avoid foolish questions and genealogies,
and contentions, and strivings about the law;
for they are unprofitable and vain