To quote Yoda; No, no different. It only seems different from the synergistic perspective because its the only way to get the scriptures to fit. For years I puzzled over the Gospel of John (along with some other scriptures) because I couldnt get the pieces to fit. I would end up saying, Well, it a mystery to me. Guess Ill have to wait till I get to Heaven. People end up having a theology that have different methods of salvation, different methods of election, different methods of pick a topic. God does not have different methods of salvation or election or anything else. God is consistent.
While youre correct that it matters WHAT we were chosen for its equally important to understand we WERE chosen. Not in some collective group for those who would make the right decision but as individuals. And it wasn't by any "good" decision that we could make for we would never chose the right decision. (If Adam in his unfallen state couldn't make the right decision what makes us think that we in our fallen state will?)
Our Lord Jesus felt this was an important enough issue that He addressed it head on.
You did not choose Me but I chose you, and appointed you that you would go and bear fruit, and that your fruit would remain, so that whatever you ask of the Father in My name He may give to you. John 15:16
and again:
If you were of the world, the world would love its own; but because you are not of the world, but I chose you out of the world, because of this the world hates you. John 15:19
In John 15 our Lord Jesus 1) chose us, 2) appointed us to bear fruit, 3) our fruit would remain, 4) so that our prayers would be heard. There are few greater truths than this. He has chosen us, He has made sure we will bear fruit, He will make sure our fruit survives and all of this so that our prayers will be heard by the Father. He is indeed our Great Shepherd who is watching over His sheep and no one will snatch us out of His hands.