First, let me start with the Catholic arguments. The RCC does no longer teach that marital sex should be for procreation purposes only. The act (or the "deed" as they call it) must be "life-giving" and therefore "natural."
Thus, if the act is itself is not natural, but involves mechanical or chemical barriers that prevent or terminate conception, the "deed" is not condoned. However, the "deed" is condoned even if the couple is no longer capable of producing life, as long as the "deed" is "life-giving."action is generative of its kind even though a baby cannot be born from it because of other conditions, as when the woman is sterile or already pregnant.
This is very interesting, because it does not address the man. If his "life-giving" function is impaired, and no life-giving "deed" can be accomplished (i.e. no seed), it would seem that such marriage could not continue in the "deed." So no seed, no deed [regardless of the need?]
The definition of the "deed" also begs the question of the "motive," that is -- under what circumstances is such a deed permissible, i.e. "should husband and wife seriously intend to have a child whenever they have intercourse and should they try to restrict intercourse to those times when the conception of a child is possible?" The position of the RCC seems is clear:
The answer is negative. There are other valid reasons for intercourse besides procreation. These are the healthy expression of passion, the fostering of mutual love, the strengthening of the sacramental bond of marriage. These are worthy motives, implying the human love and devotion of marriage, including more than the mere appetite for pleasure, which is not a sufficient motive for any action. The intention of trying to have a child is not necessary as a [sic] regular motive.
What is the Orthodox position"? The Orthodox Church is less legalistic, and therefore, as the primitive Church, has different theologians whose opinions are somewhat different from others and on which the Church had no universal teaching (i.e. has not been addressed by an Ecumenical Council). Thus we find that the EOC has some general agreements on this issue:
1. since at least one of the purposes of marriage is the birth of children, a couple acts immorally when it consistently uses contraceptive methods to avoid the birth of any children, if there are not extenuating circumstances;
2. contraception is also immoral when used to encourage the practice of fornication and adultery.
There are those, with whom conservative Catholics would find agreement
Then there are
Surprisingly, if not ironically, both of these have their roots in Church history and teachings of select fathers.
However, most authors
Personally I always wanted to ask our Catholic brethren on what grounds is the use of medications and or artificial devices allowed in the prevention and suppression of "natural" diseases, or extending life beyond the "natural" death, whereas the same are not in the "natural deed" of sexual intercourse, and how is man's inability to produce a "life-giving" act reconciled with Church's view that only "life-giving" act is acceptable when such act is impossible (i.e. damage to the sperm-generating structures if man's reproductive organs)?
Historical perspective of interest. St John Chrysostom taught that
Unfortunately, the Greek orthodox Church in America interprets this to mean that he considered the purpose of marriage "primarily the satisfaction of the sexual drive." [?] If anything, he was advocating chastity through marriage, and then procreation, not satisfaction of the sexual drive.
The EOC considers any conception outside the marriage or within marriage that is not agreed upon by both partners as unacceptable
In medieval Russia, the OC treated sex as necessary evil literally speaking.
The number of times a woman attended church on Sundays in a given month were noted, and coming four Sundays in a row was proof of transgression, and brought with it heavy penance. Such penance could be up to 3 years denial of the sacraments, especially if it were proved that she had taken communion. Contemporary accounts, surely trumped up to scare women into line, had God turning one poor woman into a horse for taking communion during her cycle, and another stuck by lightening for inadvertently walking over the grave of a saint while thus "unclean." Though nothing further is known of the horse, the latter woman later repented and was cured of her period.
Orthodox writings decried the physical union of man with woman as base and squalid, even in marriage. Sex was for the sole purpose of procreation, and that only because of Eve's folly. St John Chrysotom, one of the most famous philosophers of Orthodoxy, explained that it was actually the Word of God that provided the divine magic of procreation, and that had Eve not led to mankind's ejection from Eden, some other, less base, way of procreating would have been bestowed upon them by God. Thus, though procreation was a duty, the very act that allowed it was a defilement rooted in original sin. The Church urged a celibate life for the married, with the exception of procreation.
St. Augustine said
Augustine and others at that time considered sex a subject of grave danger "in part because they believed that sexual feelings and urges, particularly the reactions of the genital organs, were not fully under the control of the human will," and given that many saw sex as something that resulted as a consequence of man's Fall from God, as a power intrinsically evil.
In general, Gnostics, including Origen who castrated himself, believed that Adam and Eve had no sexual temptations in Paradise and that sex therefore resulted from the "original sin" and that, as such, its essence was sinful. This was not alien even to mainline "orthodox" teachers.
As the time progressed, the Church was becoming stricter with regard to sex and the definition of familia. The Roman family was nothing like ours. The man in the familia was not part of it; familia was his possession, and it included his wife, children, servants, slaves and live stock.
Generally intercourse was forbidden
The Catholic Church (and very possibly the Orthodox as well) also taught and still teaches that married partners have an obligation to "submit" to each other whenever one of them desires sex. This was put into a law by Pope Alexander III. Under this teaching, this obligation remains in force even if one of the partners acquires a contagious disease, such as leprosy [p. 335]
It is also interesting to note that "Fornication between unmarried persons was declared [sic] heresy in 1287.
How can an act be heresy is beyond me. It may be a heretical act, but not heresy.
In conclusion, it is obvious that the Church did not teach uniformly on the issue of sex, marriage and its purpose in the past as it doesn't today. The EOC has no special councils that address the issue as doctrinal. It is therefore invalid to demand or condemn the Church by leaving the decisions as to what is permitted to a bishop. Any reconciliation of the East and the West will have to recognize that, in absence of a formal conciliar decision, such prerogative of bishops will have to be honored at least in the East.
It is obvious that both the Church of the East and West altered significantly their attitudes toward sex, and its purpose in marriage throughout history and under different social circumstances, and therefore cannot claim it as Tradition. Both remain committed to condemning sex outside of marriage, which both consider a Sacrament.
It is important to remember that our Savior did not address these issues in any detail, and was not in His salvific message.
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My dear brother Kosta, you have said the most important thing in the end.
If the bulk of us spent more time loving each other, feeding the hungry, and biting our tongues when we would like to speak in anger or hostility, and especially in prayer, think what we could become.
The Orthodox church is not legalistic. She wisely refrains from human manufacture of doctrine whenever possible.
I am reminded of an inappropriate comparison from a movie we watched. A group of gangsters had kidnapped a young girl and were thought to have killed her. Her former bodyguard, an assassin by trade, who had loved the child, decides to go out and kill them all, one by one.
As the assassin is standing in an apartment window preparing to shoot and kill some guilty men driving by, the elderly man in the apartment says "God says we should forgive those who harm us".
And the assassin replies, "Forgiveness is between God and them. My job is to arrange the meeting."
The "job" of the Orthodox church is to hold the meeting.
A fascinating post. I wonder if we'll be able to go a week on this forum without someone shrieking that that "Orthodox caved on contraception" regardless of the facts?
Nah, actually, I know that we won't. Ah well.