Perhaps a theology primer would be in order:
As has always been the case, you are free to say anything you wish to say, while I am obligated to react to what you say according to the rules and guidelines given to me by the owner of the site. That is to say, let your conscience be your guide, and take the responsibility for the consequences of your actions.
It seems to me that you're overlooking Christ's several mandates regarding forgiveness (70x7; forgive me as I forgive them; etc), but that is on your head. But be that as it may, I am not here to justify my actions nor to listen to long-winded and repetitive divinations of "the rules". If you - and, of course, everyone else - would conduct yourself on this forum as a Christian, there would be no need for me or my "office".
As you say (or rather, almost say), let God mete out justice; it will not be achieved by mortal man. In any event, I'm not going to engage in a long and drawn out discussion of the rules. They are clearly posted, they are easily understood and it should be clear to all that they are most times enforced with a certain amount of lenience. If that is not satisfactory, well, there are other places on the Internet one can go vent. I've heard the argument "I did no wrong, he's the one!" so many times that it carries little or no weight any longer. Rather than demand the Golden Rule, practice it, and you'll do just fine.