Jesus never came back to speak to this woman.
(Heb 1:1 KJV) God, who at sundry times and in divers manners spake in time past unto the fathers by the prophets,
((Heb 1:2 KJV) Hath in these last days spoken unto us by his Son, whom he hath appointed heir of all things, by whom also he made the worlds;
Clearly, God stopped speaking through Prophets and visions and Dreams on the times of Jesus Christ, with the final , finished time of this beginning at Pentacost, and ending when the Church stopped having the signs and miracles gifts that ended before the fall of Jerusalem.
Jesus didn't speak to this woman.
Sorry, NYer, you are wrong.
Odd, I had a Near Death Experience before I was a Christian and He appeared to me
Who are you to judge her validity