I hate to play the rumor-monger. I've even avoided any scandal articles unless there was a theological point involved, but the article regarding the McFarlanes to which you linked in your post says that they were married in December 1990. This Plain Dealer article says they have been married 13 years. That is one more strange coincidence. I hope that it is explained as nothing more than that. But as someone else pointed out, Bud McFarlane of CatholiCity needs to send out one of his emails ASAP to warn people that he is not the Bud McFarlane in this story, if that is the case.