[johnb2004]

Very good and true. I do think many are committing grave sins today and believing they are not sins.

[american colleen]

That's sure the problem. So many parishes advertise that they take people the way they are (as they should, we are all sinners in need of redemption) but they separate or neglect to mention how and why we need to repent (if mentioned, it's usually pretty vague so as not to cause offen$e) in order to enter the Kingdom of God (which is not on earth, contrary to popular belief!). What we should repent of is not mentioned much, it's left up to our own consciences.