I sing that song.
REAL love is desiring the lost to be saved. That love is not compromising , it is hard truth telling. Hear Peter being filled with the Holy Ghost
Act 3:13 The God of Abraham, and of Isaac, and of Jacob, the God of our fathers, hath glorified his Son Jesus; whom ye delivered up, and denied him in the presence of Pilate, when he was determined to let [him] go.
Act 3:14 But ye denied the Holy One and the Just, and desired a murderer to be granted unto you;
Act 3:15 And killed the Prince of life, whom God hath raised from the dead; whereof we are witnesses.
If God has "predetermined" the "elect" (and thus by elimination the "non-elect"), what exactly is being desired here? That God had chosen differently?
How is this not a futile desire, if everything is "foreordained"?
Sorry. You might claim having this love. But talk is cheap.