Yep , but you would not like the answer...God hates those that He sends to hell, so your question remains irrevelent as to who was saved at the cross.
The fact is that God is so holy and righteous that He hates the sinner (Psalm 5:5; Lev. 20:23; Prov. 6:16-19; Hos. 9:15).
"You are not a god who delights in evil; no wicked person finds refuge with you; the arrogant cannot stand before you. You [God] hate all who do evil;" [Ps. 5:4-5]
"Into your hands I commend my spirit; you will redeem me, LORD, faithfulGod. You hate those who serve worthless idols, but I trust in the LORD." [Ps. 31:5-6]
Do those in hell hate God? Do they grieve for what they could have had?
Does God grieve for those who are lost?
SD
God doesn't send us to hell. Those that end up there do so by their own choice.