That's not true. The Magisterium speaks of "just" and "legitimate" reasons coming from "serious" (as opposed to "frivolous") motives. Also, there is no requirement even to reduce oneself to near penury by having children, or to have as many children as physically possible. The Magisterium speaks of the "praise" that is to be given to those who have many children, not the "requirement" of all or most to do so. The procreation of children is an issue of distributive social justice, not sexual morality - they are something owed by the married couple to society, so their number has a rational connection to the needs of society for children. So there is a greater obligation to have a larger number of children in a country like the US than there is in India or China.
Notice I didn't mention the man voting for his wife. Had I, me bride woulda brained me.