[fqued]

Unless there is a medical problem, any marriage in which sex "occurs" about once a month is probably a sick marriage.

I don't doubt that there are such.
I was merely trying to show that the EVIDENCE indicates that those marriages are nowhere near the norm.
And the evidence indicates what I said, that the best and most frequent sex is within marriage, and the average American adult does it about 115 times a year, or, on the average of twice a week.

[OMalley]

**Unless there is a medical problem, any marriage in which sex "occurs" about once a month is probably a sick marriage.**

I was recently given a book to read from a friend on "holiness living" and when I got to the sex part I had to LOL.

It said exactly the opposite of your post. that sex was not an important part of marriage and that you should find more "holy" things to do.

if you found yourself wanting sex more than occasionally, or thought of it often you were to consult your doctor to see something was physically wrong with you. If there wasnt you simply needed more prayer and dicipline.

She asked me what I thought of the book since she found it wonderful, I didnt know what to say.....