Survey: Women Older Than 40 Seek Younger Dates

To: DaughterOfAnIwoJimaVet

I'm 43, kiddo!

Are you channeling the reply I posted? I'm not into chicks who take that psychic garbage seriously.

61 posted on 09/30/2003 6:55:41 PM PDT by Senator Pardek

To: RedBloodedAmerican

I know. You're implying I want to find someone younger to date.

Actually, I'm married to the perfect guy.

If he ever dumps me, you'll be the first to know. Well, actually the second. No...the third. OKAY, actually, I'm not going to tell you at all. LOL

; )

62 posted on 09/30/2003 7:00:14 PM PDT by DaughterOfAnIwoJimaVet (He's not dead, he's electroencephalographically challenged.)

To: Senator Pardek

I have no idea what you're talking about. LOL (I am 43, almost 44...)

63 posted on 09/30/2003 7:00:45 PM PDT by DaughterOfAnIwoJimaVet (He's not dead, he's electroencephalographically challenged.)

Hmmmmmm...you learn something new every day around here. : )

64 posted on 09/30/2003 7:02:30 PM PDT by DaughterOfAnIwoJimaVet (He's not dead, he's electroencephalographically challenged.)

To: Senator Pardek

Testify! ;)

You just reminded me...check out the latest Meatloaf album. (If you can listen to "Testify" without wanting to get up, clap your hands, and stomp your feet, better call the paramedics.)

65 posted on 09/30/2003 7:03:12 PM PDT by Poohbah ("[Expletive deleted] 'em if they can't take a joke!" -- Major Vic Deakins, USAF)

To: DaughterOfAnIwoJimaVet

If he ever dumps me, you'll be the first to know. Well, actually the second. No...the third. OKAY, actually, I'm not going to tell you at all. LOL

Wow. In all my time on FR, that was the meanest thing anyone ever said to me, and you actually made me cry.

66 posted on 09/30/2003 7:03:15 PM PDT by RedBloodedAmerican

To: DaughterOfAnIwoJimaVet

Ya see - you typed "I'm 43", which happened to be the reply # of my post - so I joked that you "channeling" or speaking through my post.

Oh - forget it.

67 posted on 09/30/2003 7:05:44 PM PDT by Senator Pardek

To: DaughterOfAnIwoJimaVet

You are 43 going on 44
Baby its time to think
Better beware
Be canny and careful
Baby you're on the brink

You are 43 going on 44
Fellows will fall in line
Eager young lads
And grueways and cads
Will offer you fruit and wine

Totally unprepared are you
To face a world of men
Timid and shy and scared are you
Of things beyond your ken

You need someone
Younger and studly
Telling you what to do
I am 17 going on 18
I'll take care of you

68 posted on 09/30/2003 7:06:18 PM PDT by RedBloodedAmerican

To: RedBloodedAmerican

ROTFL - OMG, you are a funny guy. : )

69 posted on 09/30/2003 7:06:24 PM PDT by DaughterOfAnIwoJimaVet (He's not dead, he's electroencephalographically challenged.)

To: Senator Pardek

I got it! But then, I am also much younger than she, so maybe she is slowing down with age?

70 posted on 09/30/2003 7:07:04 PM PDT by RedBloodedAmerican

To: Senator Pardek

I'm not that observant, Pardek. : )

71 posted on 09/30/2003 7:07:12 PM PDT by DaughterOfAnIwoJimaVet (He's not dead, he's electroencephalographically challenged.)

To: RedBloodedAmerican; Senator Pardek

No, no...I've always been slow.

72 posted on 09/30/2003 7:07:41 PM PDT by DaughterOfAnIwoJimaVet (He's not dead, he's electroencephalographically challenged.)

To: RedBloodedAmerican; DaughterOfAnIwoJimaVet

I got it! But then, I am also much younger than she, so maybe she is slowing down with age?

INCOMING!

73 posted on 09/30/2003 7:07:58 PM PDT by Poohbah ("[Expletive deleted] 'em if they can't take a joke!" -- Major Vic Deakins, USAF)

Oh yeah and another thing I'd like to add. As far as older guys being more stable, mature, nicer and less likely to cheat, that's a lie! Ladies don't believe it, it's a trick and a scam. It all depends on the individual. The older guys who refuse to date their own age are worse than the younger ones and 'you' aren't the only younger woman he wants now that he is free from the first two wives ROFL. Don't be fooled ladies! He will trade you in 5 years or sooner he probably has a track record to prove it, go check it out if you don't believe it.

I guess if you are dating an older man for the short term for financial gain it's all well and good. That is the only reason young girls date older. Older men are not marriage material and the younger guys have just as much money if not more these days so you get the best of both worlds and don't have to make sure it is pitch black in the room in order to have sex with the old man.

I can understand though, steal what you can and get out is my advice because that is all you will get out of it. Older men just use younger women for their looks. You're a mere object to him and nothing more. That is a red flag that the guy has no interest long term because superficial looks are the top priority he is looking for, that is why he exclusively dates young looks only. "true love" is last on the list...

At least if you get screwed over by a younger guy you had somebody good looking to parade around and make all the girls jealous and hot guy and hot sex.

I've noticed that the chicks that date older men are the leftovers the ones that the guys her age don't want. The really hot looking young chicks can only be bribed into being his woman if he has several millions or billions. These girls want nothing to do with old men either. If you don't believe it. Tell your younger gal that you went bankrupt and need to move into the local housing projects. See how long she sticks around. I give her three days tops.

74 posted on 09/30/2003 7:08:31 PM PDT by snowstorm12

Hi Val-
I always had younger men ask me out as well. I married a man 7 years younger than me. My mom says I still look younger than he does. The guys my age always had 3 ex-wives and 4 kids or some other such nonsense. Other ladies with more patience and a kinder heart could handle all that baggage, but not me.

My husband is my best friend. We work together as well. We both have our own hobbies and likes, but we like to be with each other more than most people do. I think that this is because we started out as great friends.

75 posted on 09/30/2003 7:09:14 PM PDT by GWfan

LOL - no, I acknowledge that I am often slow on the uptake. I know my limitations. (I'm not perfect, but parts of me are excellent. I think I'll make that my tag.)

76 posted on 09/30/2003 7:09:45 PM PDT by DaughterOfAnIwoJimaVet (I'm not perfect, but parts of me are excellent.)

"steal what you can and get out "

Honorable woman....NOT!

77 posted on 09/30/2003 7:12:42 PM PDT by Rebelbase

To: DaughterOfAnIwoJimaVet

I'm not perfect

Save for your pitch (I hate you for that).

78 posted on 09/30/2003 7:16:14 PM PDT by Senator Pardek

40 and looking for young stuff? Nothing wrong with that if you are both single. Nothing at all. </H2?

79 posted on 09/30/2003 7:19:26 PM PDT by oldironsides

Well, at my age and if I were single, I would consider dating a younger man.

My mother, who was widowed in her fifties and free to marry, told me the truth.

Most men want who want to marry after sixty want a nurse.

LOL

80 posted on 09/30/2003 7:26:15 PM PDT by Conservababe

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