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Having lived in some cities with a lot of homosexuals, I have become adept at picking them out. It isn't that they are necessarily effeminate (although the ones with boobs and lipstick are). They emanate a sick self-centeredness - their awareness is bent back upon their own appearance and (gack) sexuality - it's like a subtle stink that permeates the air around them. Their consciousness is focused on their butts.

A normal man isn't obsessed or that concerned with his appearance. If he's searching for a mate, he tries to look good, and there are exceptions to this as well. (Usually predator type men who use and discard women.) A normal man's attention is on what he is doing, where he is going, his thoughts and plans, and if he's attracted - it's to a woman.

Homosexuals, OTOH, are attracted to their own sex organs. Their attention is withdrawn into their own bodies, and it is a very subtle yet noticeable thing. It is also sick, and sad, and if normal men want to emulate them, they won't be normal for long. No normal woman wants a relationship with someone who is obsessed with appearance and "style".

They'll probably get the kind of shallow women they deserve.

P.S. My very normal husband has to have his clothes ripped away from him to go into the laundry - tries to hide his socks so I won't waste time sorting them into pairs, he'd prefer to just grab two even if they don't match. The ones with holes? He figures he can wear them one more time (and one more time etc). He hangs around in his long johns as regular home wear. He also cuts his own hair.
I wouldn't have him any other way. If he started going all fashionable on me I'd get sick.

I call it "twigging my Gaydar"
There is something about *most* homosexual men which is readily observed but difficult to define. I like your description of it - it works.

Pram -- your post #17 -- excellent! Thanks for helping to identify, in words, things that tend to escape them. Well done.

I remember reading that a cultural anthropologist concluded that primitivie cultures where children are routinely sexualized, and where sex between males is accepted and "normal" even for men who are married with wives and kids, those cultures never really advanced much BECAUSE of the pettiness that the men engaged in. In other words, the various relationships between the men created jealousies and a kind of cattiness that prevented them from advancing as a society.

Personally, I think the widespread acceptance of homosexuality is one of the biggest threats to our civilization and culture today. Homosexuality has been around forever, and probably always will be -- it's the acceptance of it that creates the problems. It has cultural consequences that are not obvious, so most people think, "What's the harm in it?" Very, very dangerous.

I have become adept at picking them out....same here!
As a banquet director at a major hotel, many of my best servers were gay, I arranged Gay Bash parties for over 300, so I have managed to pick them out instantly.

Three in the entertainment world, who most would never guess are GAY, The Presidents new press secretary (can't think of his name), Quarterback for the 49ers Garcia, and newsman for Fox News, can't think of his name either, but, he does those 15 second spots. If you don't belive me, watch their moves and mouth for awhile, if you don't see it your blind.

They'll probably get the kind of shallow women they deserve.

Great insight and analysis.

Having lived in some cities with a lot of homosexuals, I have become adept at picking them out. It isn't that they are necessarily effeminate (although the ones with boobs and lipstick are). They emanate a sick self-centeredness - their awareness is bent back upon their own appearance and (gack) sexuality - it's like a subtle stink that permeates the air around them. Their consciousness is focused on their butts.
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Homosexuals, OTOH, are attracted to their own sex organs. Their attention is withdrawn into their own bodies, and it is a very subtle yet noticeable thing.

The second law of homosexuality:

To the mentally healthy person (heterosexual), sex is something they do.
To the mentally diseased person ('homosexual'), sex is everything they are