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That is the kind of thing that makes my blood boil. How a judge, a MALE judge at that, could so thoroughly sell out a man to enable a piece of scum woman like that? Especially after what CPS found? It is painfully obvious that the system has completely marginalized men. To the system, men are sperm donors and a bank account, nothing more.

I hope your friend can get his day in court, and after he gets his kids, I hope he campaigns hard to get that judge removed from office. He's a disgrace to the bench and to the legal system.

It's not even the sperm donors...they just want the bank account. My friend was ordered by the court to pay $2400 a month in child support. He sends his check to the county, and THEY send her a check for $1800...skimming $600 off the top for handling and to pay for "other services". It's a scam, pure and simple, and it requires wage earning parents in order to continue operating. If the judge had given the kids to him and ordered her to pay, she would have simply plead poverty and the county would have been out $600 a month. This way, they get to keep her on the public dole AND make a tidy profit.

As for him, he SHOULD be able to get his kids back with a decent lawyer (a lawyer from his church offered to represent him on Sunday, and will let him pay after the child support is suspended, so things are looking up for him in that regard). The ONLY reason CPS won't give him the children right now are the divorce claims she made against him...they found the battery allegations in their divorce papers and are now referring to him as an "abusive father". Any decent attorney could blow a million holes in that argument, he just hasn't had one to do it with.