The first and third I can agree with. But the second -- well, them's fightin' words. I grew up with classical music and developed a taste for opera in my early adulthood. And what was my day job when I developed that taste for opera? I was a second looie in the Army Signal Corps at Fort Lewis, the battalion motor officer of a signal battalion. Hope that's macho enough for you.
But that's the problem here. For you, #2 was a deal breaker. For the guy next to you it might be #1, and the next guy #3. None of these things make a guy less masculine.
JUUUUUUUUUUUUUUST a tad touchy there, are we????? :)