My lady is a teacher. I have just interviewed her for this post. She says that, at her school, sex ed is provided in the seventh grade science class and that the teacher does demonstrate the use of condoms in a very matter of fact way with either a cucumber or a zucchini squash (she isn't sure which). I am not talking about a public school. I'm talking about one of the most exclusive private schools in this country.
Should this kind of information only be provided to kids in private schools?
It is ridiculous to think this needs demonstrating.
NO. It should not be provided to kids at all. They'll have plenty of time to learn about condoms after they are married.
All of institutional (as opposed to familial) sex ed can be summed up in a few short sentences:
Don't have sex before you're married. If you do you will screw up your life. Leave adult problems to the adults.